dragons-daughter-blog:

When someone tries to tell me that Sansa who married with man who’s family killed her brother and mother is better person than Dany. Who never ever thought about people during her stupid life. Her main intension was only herself.

She became a prissioner because betrayed her own father and family. She betrayed Jon and didn’t tell him That vale’s army comes to help Noth. Because she wanted to became hero.

Hirl whose main intention was always “how became a queen” nothing more.

Girl whose idol always was Cersei Lannister.

Girl who never ever respected people. She always mentioned people when she needs: Jon, Brienne, Arya, Theon,Tyrion … Brienne accepted to protect her but she choice Littlefinger while she wanted became a Lady of a Winterfell with Ramsy. But she mentioned Brienne? When she needed her and has no otherway .

Jon who always was his “bastard” brother for her. Shame of her father. but mentioned him after stayed alone, without people and family.

Sansa is a girl who never ever had a people her side who really loved her. Neither friends and neither Man. Everyone tried to use her like things.This isn’t little Detail. Jane Pool was her little friend but they wasn’t enaugh friends. Just because Sansa was Lady. Around her always is people who really use her. She is a beautiful but men never ever loved her. Everyone looked like Lady Stark who can you use because she is Ned Starks Daughter. She has a intention from because she is a Ned Starks Daughter. You think that it’s little detail? No this show us that Sansa is nothing with her personality. Her importance starts and finish with her status.

She hasn’t people who die for her. She hasn’t people whose life saved Sansa. She hasn’t people who loves she. Love not a respect because she is a lady of Winterfel. She had no men her side who really cared about her. She hasn’t friend who will be her soulmate. Who Sansa can trust and tell everything. Friend like Sam or Missandei. ( it’s very important detail that only Jon and Dany has true friends.heart friends. Sam and Missandei. Non of westeros lords and Ladys don’t know what real friends means.neither Sansa. Probably Arya is with Jon and Dany too)

Sansa grew up with High lord house. She has good maner ls and knows many things but her education level is slowly and law level. She knows dressmaking, singing, dancing and a lot of stupid things but she is atypical Westeros woman.

She has only ambitions but really cannot something. She needs man for be strong . Always searching man whose queen or Lady became Sansa.she isn’t independent woman.

Look at Missandei. She grew up with slavers. She was sold six times during her life. She is a young girl(10 years old in book) but she is very strong and independent woman. She knows 19 language and be queens translator and friend. And Sansa? She grew up with Lord house. She had a teachers ,nannies, parents ,siblings but she knows nothing. (If we cannot say dancing and singing)

Sansa and Margary are some ages young girls but Differences between them is very clear. Margary is typical queen. Strong,smart and always thinks until make things.

She as a Daenerys inspired people. It’s very good detail when Olena made a parallel between Margary and Dany.

Sometimes think that Sansa is coming from Queen Elisabeth | who was merried with england and not physically with man. She was queen but she had always more respect (or something)than love.she has no men attention. Everyone looked queen inside her than woman. Her position was always everything for Elisabeth while this was everything what she had. Position, family name and status is everything what Sansa has too.

Do you ever see man who looked at her like woman? Everyone speaks that she is a beautiful but why nobody loves her? Only Littlefinger has his attention but there is reason too. Sansa is like her mother and Catelyn was only woman who Littlefinger loved his life. Sansa is shadow of Catelyn for him.

Do you remember what Jo told to Sansa on the wall? If he isn’t protect her their father’s Ghost never forgive that. Practically there is no feelings between them too. This sounds like job .

When I was reading the book this was clear. Every man thinks merry with Daenerys in book. A lot of man and this isn’t only because she is powerful. Men thinks that she is attractive, interesting, passionate, beautiful, survivor and different woman. Men are interesting in her.and what is the most important is that Daenerys is free, Independent woman.

I think that between Arya and Dany are a lot of parallels. They lost family, house, homeland early years. They learned to fight, survive … they are both warriors.

If Sansa continues to think only herself. Only her and her houses defense she will be alone alwas. Or someone marry with her for North or her family name. Because she is a Stark. She needs to think about people. Her people and not because this people will defend her family and Sansa. She needs to think about people because they are her part. She need to hear to people not only lords.

Sansa is always thinking about things what she needs for herself.

Dany is a symbol of democracy and start of new world. She thinks about people. Ordinary people is her main intention not only lords. Why? Because people CHOSE her like Jon.

CHOSE is a first step of new world. Dany and Jon gave a people their choice. And because of that people loves them. Not only respect.

When people need you because of duty or because they have no other way. This relationship can’t be long. Lord Tywin is example of that. He was powerful and strong but his power dead with him. Because his power wasn’t built with love. There was always only Duty

“And LOVE is a death of duty “

Sansa thinks that power is important.positions and status are important but what about feelings?

“ I will never merry with Bastard. I will merry with pronce”’

Her words from book. How disgusting is she about bastards? Like they aren’t people. And what is a different between Sansa and Dany.

Dany loved him as Bastard and his status means nothing for her. Her past life showed her that people is important not statuses. While she grew up with ordinary people.

She knows what values more. Feelings or statuses. What values more people or gold. What values more power or true feelings.

Dany never mentioned to Jon that he is Bastard. She respects him as a person.

I think that when Dany sit the iron throne she will defeat “bastard name tradicion” and gave a names all of them. And nexs babies who will borne without marriage. Like in democracy.